{"id":7782,"date":"2013-12-10T19:05:19","date_gmt":"2013-12-10T19:05:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/?p=7782"},"modified":"2013-12-10T19:05:19","modified_gmt":"2013-12-10T19:05:19","slug":"die-mutter-an-der-wall-street-die-vater-zu-hause","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/2013\/12\/10\/die-mutter-an-der-wall-street-die-vater-zu-hause\/","title":{"rendered":"Die M\u00fctter an der Wall Street, die V\u00e4ter zu Hause"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>In der New York Times<\/a> war vor einigen Tagen die Geschichte von Marielle Jan de Beur und ihrem Mann Mr. Langley zu lesen. Sie arbeitet an der Wall Street, die Zahl der dort arbeitenden M\u00fctter hat sich in den vergangenen 30 Jahren von knapp 3.000 auf \u00fcber 21.000 versiebenfacht, er ist ein \u201estay at home dad<\/a>\u201c.<\/p>\n

Obwohl deren Zahl in den USA, auch v\u00f6llig ohne gesetzliche Elternzeiten best\u00e4ndig steigt, f\u00fchlen sich l\u00e4ngst nicht alle M\u00e4nner in dieser Rolle wohl, zumindest wenn sie von anderen gefragt werden, was sie so machen:<\/p>\n

\u2018When people ask what he does, Mr. Langley could say artist \u2014 he gives the buildings and landscapes he paints expressive personalities of their own \u2014 but he has just begun trying to sell his work. Other fathers in similar situations say they often tell white lies: They are retired, they are consultants, they work at home. Mr. Langley generally goes with \u201cstay-at-home dad.\u201d \u201cThat\u2019s what I call myself,\u201d he said over lunch at a restaurant in Rye, the other tables filled with groups of women. \u201cI wouldn\u2019t say I like it.\u201d\u2019<\/p>\n

Interessant ist der Blick der Partnerinnen auf die Ausf\u00fcllung der h\u00e4uslichen Aufgabe durch die M\u00e4nner. Sie machen vieles alleine und gehen dennoch ihren Hobbies nach:<\/p>\n

\u201aBut many of the wives say their husbands approach parenthood differently than women do. The stay-at-home mothers in Rye often congregate at spinning or yoga classes, but their male counterparts all seem to have a hobby involving a boat: sailing, building wood kayaks and, in Mr. Langley\u2019s case, depicting fishing dinghies and half-finished hulls in his paintings. Despite their wealth, the men seem largely resistant to relying on nannies and babysitters, facing down screaming toddlers and constant meal preparation with go-it-alone stoicism.\u2019<\/p>\n

Ich denke, dass die Partnerinnen dies wertsch\u00e4tzen, ist die Voraussetzung daf\u00fcr, dass solche Modelle auch \u00fcber l\u00e4ngere Zeiten Bestand haben.<\/p>\n

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In der New York Times war vor einigen Tagen die Geschichte von Marielle Jan de Beur und ihrem Mann Mr. Langley zu lesen. Sie arbeitet an der Wall Street, die Zahl der dort arbeitenden M\u00fctter hat sich in den vergangenen 30 Jahren von knapp 3.000 auf \u00fcber 21.000 versiebenfacht, er ist ein \u201estay at home […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[43,47,71],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7782"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7782"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7782\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7783,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7782\/revisions\/7783"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7782"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7782"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7782"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}