{"id":444,"date":"2007-05-10T15:19:47","date_gmt":"2007-05-10T13:19:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/2007\/05\/12\/the-spirit-is-willing-but-the-system-is-weak\/"},"modified":"2007-05-12T15:21:02","modified_gmt":"2007-05-12T13:21:02","slug":"the-spirit-is-willing-but-the-system-is-weak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/2007\/05\/10\/the-spirit-is-willing-but-the-system-is-weak\/","title":{"rendered":"The spirit is willing, but the system is weak"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-top: 6pt\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Verdana\">Die Frage, warum die neuen V\u00e4ter in allen Umfragen die Mehrheit stellen, in der Realit\u00e4t aber bislang wenig sichtbar sind, stellt sich nicht nur hierzulande.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-top: 6pt\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Verdana\">Brian Reid, Autor des <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/rebeldad.com\/\">rebeldad<\/a> Blogs und Gastschreiber im <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.washingtonpost.com\/onbalance\/\">OnBalance<\/a> Blog der <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/\">Washington Post<\/a> sucht in seinem Beitrag \u201a<a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.washingtonpost.com\/onbalance\/2007\/03\/why_dads_arent_catching_up_fas.html\">With Workplace Help, Dads Would Step Up More<\/a>\u2019 ebenfalls nach Antworten:<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-top: 6pt\"><span lang=\"EN-GB\" style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Verdana\">I have been vexed by the question of why dads haven\u2019t started doing more sooner, and I found an answer of sorts in the American Prospect <\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Verdana\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.prospect.org\/\"><span lang=\"EN-GB\">essay by Kathleen Gerson<\/span><\/a><\/span><span lang=\"EN-GB\" style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Verdana\"> that I <\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Verdana\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.washingtonpost.com\/onbalance\/2007\/03\/in_defense_of_the_dualearner_h.html\"><span lang=\"EN-GB\">mentioned a couple of weeks ago<\/span><\/a><\/span><span lang=\"EN-GB\" style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Verdana\">. Gerson suggests that young men today come into relationships with egalitarian ideals \u2014 just like <\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Verdana\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.abcdependentcare.com\/docs\/current_news.shtml#study\"><span lang=\"EN-GB\">the surveys suggest <\/span><\/a><\/span><span lang=\"EN-GB\" style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Verdana\">\u2013 but fall back into a \u201cneotraditional arrangement\u201d when they hit the modern realities of \u201crigid, time-demanding jobs and a dearth of child-care or family-leave options block the path to such a goal.\u201d<\/span><span lang=\"EN-GB\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-top: 6pt\"><span lang=\"EN-GB\" style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Verdana\">Basically, the spirit is willing, but the system is weak. There is <\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Verdana\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.halfchangedworld.com\/2007\/03\/gender_noncomfo.html\"><span lang=\"EN-GB\">a reasonable debate<\/span><\/a><\/span><span lang=\"EN-GB\" style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Verdana\"> to be had about whether more \u201cfamily-friendly\u201d policies will just exacerbate gender gaps (because women will be more likely to use them at a cost of career advancement), but Gerson\u2019s theory, coupled with the refreshing idealism of young dads, suggests otherwise \u2014 that dads are ready to step up to the plate, if only the workplace would allow for it.<\/span><span lang=\"EN-GB\" \/><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Die Frage, warum die neuen V\u00e4ter in allen Umfragen die Mehrheit stellen, in der Realit\u00e4t aber bislang wenig sichtbar sind, stellt sich nicht nur hierzulande. Brian Reid, Autor des rebeldad Blogs und Gastschreiber im OnBalance Blog der Washington Post sucht in seinem Beitrag \u201aWith Workplace Help, Dads Would Step Up More\u2019 ebenfalls nach Antworten: I [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[21,24],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/444"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=444"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/444\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=444"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=444"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=444"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}