{"id":3695,"date":"2010-09-01T10:59:48","date_gmt":"2010-09-01T09:59:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/?p=3695"},"modified":"2010-09-01T10:59:48","modified_gmt":"2010-09-01T09:59:48","slug":"im-niemandsland-zwischen-vaterzeit-und-der-welt-danach","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/2010\/09\/01\/im-niemandsland-zwischen-vaterzeit-und-der-welt-danach\/","title":{"rendered":"Im Niemandsland zwischen V\u00e4terzeit und der Welt danach"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In den vergangenen Jahren habe ich an dieser Stelle regelm\u00e4\u00dfig Nathan Hegedus aus deinem Blog <a href=\"http:\/\/nathanhegedus.wordpress.com\" target=\"_blank\">Daddyland<\/a> zitiert. Dort hat er die Erlebnisse seiner mehrj\u00e4hrige Elternzeit und die schwedische V\u00e4terpolitik aufgearbeitet.<\/p>\n<p>Heute ist f\u00fcr ihn eine neue Zeitrechnung angebrochen, mit dem Kauf einer neuen Monatskarte f\u00fcr die U-Bahn hat er Daddyland verlassen. In seinem gestrigen Blogbeitrag beschreibt er seine Schwierigkeiten beim Einchecken in die Arbeitswelt.<\/p>\n<p>\u201aTomorrow I leave Daddyland. \u00a0The border check will be when I buy my monthly subway pass, I suppose. \u00a0For now, I am in a kind of no-man\u2019s land \u2013 two days of alone time, waiting around for any emergency calls from my son\u2019s daycare.<\/p>\n<p>\u2026 But I\u2019m not cleaning because two days of silence is to be treasured. \u00a0I had plans but instead I have just laid in bed, not depressed, but reveling in it. \u00a0The silence was stressful, actually, my head spinning in the sudden freedom of my thoughts, uninterrupted by a toddler holding a book or a preschooler wanting to play \u201cdead fish\u201d (that game is way cooler than it sounds, a NK original).<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll actually have more personal space when I leave Daddyland. \u00a0But somehow in the chaos of my 18 months here (between two kids over three years) I\u2019ve come to a sort of spiritual peace, I\u2019ve prioritized my life in a way that soothes me, not producing anxiety or doubt, I\u2019m fascinated by the whole idea of redefining masculinity and fatherhood, and I started really writing again. \u2026\u2019<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/nathanhegedus.wordpress.com\/2010\/08\/31\/in-the-no-mans-zone-between-daddyland-and-the-world-beyond\/ \" target=\"_blank\">Quelle<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In den vergangenen Jahren habe ich an dieser Stelle regelm\u00e4\u00dfig Nathan Hegedus aus deinem Blog Daddyland zitiert. Dort hat er die Erlebnisse seiner mehrj\u00e4hrige Elternzeit und die schwedische V\u00e4terpolitik aufgearbeitet. Heute ist f\u00fcr ihn eine neue Zeitrechnung angebrochen, mit dem Kauf einer neuen Monatskarte f\u00fcr die U-Bahn hat er Daddyland verlassen. In seinem gestrigen Blogbeitrag [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2],"tags":[116],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3695"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3695"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3695\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3697,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3695\/revisions\/3697"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3695"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3695"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3695"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}