{"id":3664,"date":"2010-08-21T14:05:42","date_gmt":"2010-08-21T13:05:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/?p=3664"},"modified":"2010-08-21T14:06:44","modified_gmt":"2010-08-21T13:06:44","slug":"die-leiden-der-teilzeit-vater","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/2010\/08\/21\/die-leiden-der-teilzeit-vater\/","title":{"rendered":"Die Leiden der Teilzeit V\u00e4ter"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In der Wochendausgabe der Times beschreibt William Leith, selbst Trennungsvater, die Leiden der V\u00e4ter, die ihre Kinder nicht oft genug sehen k\u00f6nnen. Die V\u00e4ter, Prominente wie Bob Geldorf und <a href=\"http:\/\/de.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Dougray_Scott \" target=\"_blank\">Dougray Scott<\/a>, aber auch V\u00e4ter aus der Nachbarschaft beschreiben eindrucksvoll ihre Gef\u00fchle, die Sie bei den Momenten mit ihren Kindern haben und die Sorgen und N\u00f6te, die die Trennung verursacht hat.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018\u2026 And then I would hear Billy\u2019s voice. My son! There was always a rush of emotion, a balloon expanding in my chest. As a father, when you are separated from your child, you feel vulnerable, even if you see him a lot. It\u2019s the separation. It\u2019s the sense of not belonging. You stand on the doorstep, and you hear your son\u2019s voice, and you feel two things, the tremendous rush of love for your son existing inside the hollow pang of separation. The door opens. Now you must say something. It\u2019s not surprising that your voice sounds weird. \u2026<\/p>\n<p>When you have children, the centre of your world changes. To have them taken away from you is incredibly painful and disorientating. I look at the world in a different way now. Lots of things have been tarnished. I\u2019ve found it difficult to meet someone else and to trust another person. \u2026\u2019<\/p>\n<p>Die Schlussfolgerungen, die Dougray Scott aus der Trennungssituation zieht, machen die Parallelen zur aktuellen Diskussion um Sorgerecht hierzulande deutlich:<\/p>\n<p>\u2018I would like to see my children more often than I do.<!--more--> The irony is that in most sections of society we have a misogyny, which is wrong. In terms of the legal system it goes the other way, against men. It\u2019s a very unjust system that needs a violent change in terms of the way that fathers are treated when divorces happen. It\u2019s tragic from the mother\u2019s point of view and the father\u2019s. It doesn\u2019t benefit the parents and it certainly doesn\u2019t benefit the children. \u2026\u2019<\/p>\n<p>Familien brauchen V\u00e4ter, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fnf.org.uk\/ \" target=\"_blank\">Families need Fathers<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.thetimes.co.uk\/tto\/life\/families\/article2694175.ece \" target=\"_blank\">Quelle<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In der Wochendausgabe der Times beschreibt William Leith, selbst Trennungsvater, die Leiden der V\u00e4ter, die ihre Kinder nicht oft genug sehen k\u00f6nnen. Die V\u00e4ter, Prominente wie Bob Geldorf und Dougray Scott, aber auch V\u00e4ter aus der Nachbarschaft beschreiben eindrucksvoll ihre Gef\u00fchle, die Sie bei den Momenten mit ihren Kindern haben und die Sorgen und N\u00f6te, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[43,163,182],"tags":[152],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3664"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3664"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3664\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3666,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3664\/revisions\/3666"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3664"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3664"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3664"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}