{"id":3139,"date":"2010-04-12T20:47:30","date_gmt":"2010-04-12T19:47:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/?p=3139"},"modified":"2010-04-13T20:48:17","modified_gmt":"2010-04-13T19:48:17","slug":"die-vatermonate-wirken-lange-nach-nicht-nur-in-schweden","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/2010\/04\/12\/die-vatermonate-wirken-lange-nach-nicht-nur-in-schweden\/","title":{"rendered":"Die V\u00e4termonate wirken lange nach, nicht nur in Schweden"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Die Elternzeit von V\u00e4tern w\u00e4hrt ja \u201anur\u2019 2 Monate, ist vielfach in deutschen Gazetten zu lesen. Dass die Effekte aber sehr viel nachhaltiger sind, macht Nathan Hegedus in seinem <a href=\"http:\/\/nathanhegedus.wordpress.com\" target=\"_blank\">Blogbeitrag<\/a> vom 29. M\u00e4rz deutlich.<\/p>\n<p>\u201aA father only lives in Daddyland for a short while \u2013 a couple weeks to maybe a year. \u00a0But the impact of that sojourn echoes through the ensuing years of parenthood.<\/p>\n<p>For example, E threw out her back this weekend. Badly.<\/p>\n<p>And we all did fine. There was no dread. No, \u201cOh my god, Daddy is in charge, what will become of us!?!?\u201d fear in the children. And apartment is no more of a wreck than it usually is after a weekend, the kids did not live on old food dropped under the table.<\/p>\n<p>Now, I am on paternity leave now. So this would be expected, as I am the one at home. But it will be the same next year or the year after, when I am back at work, when E is back at work.<\/p>\n<p>I have proven myself to everyone. \u00a0I have built up a homemaking, stay at home dad competence. So Mommy can go away. Mommy can get hurt. And the world will not end.<\/p>\n<p>I would like to think this would have been true if I had never spent time in Daddyland. \u00a0I had full faith in my capabilities when I was a \u201cnormal\u201d working Dad, both in the U.S. and in Sweden. \u2026\u2019<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/nathanhegedus.wordpress.com\/2010\/03\/30\/the-long-lasting-impacts-of-paternity-leave-in-sweden\/ \" target=\"_blank\">Quelle<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Die Elternzeit von V\u00e4tern w\u00e4hrt ja \u201anur\u2019 2 Monate, ist vielfach in deutschen Gazetten zu lesen. Dass die Effekte aber sehr viel nachhaltiger sind, macht Nathan Hegedus in seinem Blogbeitrag vom 29. M\u00e4rz deutlich. \u201aA father only lives in Daddyland for a short while \u2013 a couple weeks to maybe a year. \u00a0But the impact [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2,35],"tags":[87],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3139"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3139"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3139\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3142,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3139\/revisions\/3142"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3139"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3139"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vaeter-und-karriere.de\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3139"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}